Whatever Happened to Christmas?Le

August 31st, 2008 by christmaslightsaglow

Remember when no one started Christmas shopping until after Thanksgiving?

Wisconsin author LeAnn R. Ralph remembers it very well.

“When I was growing up on our dairy farm forty years ago, the stores didn’t put up Christmas displays until the day after Thanksgiving. No one was really thinking about Christmas shopping before that,” Ralph said. “In fact, my mother felt so strongly about it that she didn’t even like to hear the word ‘Christmas’ until after we had finished eating Thanksgiving dinner.”

Ralph’s new book, Christmas In Dairyland (True Stories From a Wisconsin Farm), celebrates Christmas during that simpler time.

“Back then, happiness was baking cookies, decorating the Christmas tree, and eating lefse that my mother had made,” Ralph said.

Lefse (pronounced lef’suh) is a flat potato pastry brought to this country by Norwegian immigrants who settled in Wisconsin. Ralph’s mother was the daughter of Norwegian immigrants, and their 120-acre family farm was homesteaded by Ralph’s great-grandfather.

“When I was a kid, people enjoyed simple pleasures. The Sunday school Christmas program was an event at the little country church just down the road from our farm that was attended by nearly everyone in the neighborhood,” Ralph noted.

“At the time, if someone had told me the Christmas season was going to change so drastically that you would eventually get Christmas catalogs in the mail in August and September and that you would find Christmas decorations on sale in August and September, too I wouldn’t have believed it,” she said.

“I also would have never thought that dairy farming would change so much. I always took it for granted that we lived in ‘America’s Dairyland,’ but today, most of the small family dairy farms have disappeared,” Ralph noted.

According to statistics from the United States Census of Agriculture , Wisconsin has lost two-thirds of its dairy farms since 1969. Forty years ago, Wisconsin had 60,000 dairy farms. Today, only about 20,000 dairy farms remain.

Nation-wide statistics from the United States Census of Agriculture show the same trend. In 1969, more than a half a million dairy farms operated in the United States. Today, only about 80,000 dairy farms remain.

“As far as I was concerned, one of the best parts of Christmas was going out with my dad to cut a Christmas tree. We had small stands of pine trees planted around the farm to stop soil erosion. We would walk around until we found a nice tree, and then we would cut it and bring it home,” Ralph recalled.

Ralph’s book, Christmas In Dairyland (True Stories From a Wisconsin Farm) (copyright 2003; ISBN1-59113-366-1 ; trade paperback; 153 pages; $13.95), features 20 stories set on her family’s farm during the Christmas season. Story titles include “The Lefse Connection,” “Milkweed Pods and Poinsettias,” “Wintergreen,” “White Christmas,” “Jeg Er Sa Glad Hver Julekveld,” “The Most Perfect Toboggan,” “A Candle for Christmas,” and “A New Year Unlike Any Other.” The book also includes recipes for lefse, fattigman (a Norwegian cookie, pronounced ‘futty-mun’), julekake, and Christmas cookies, as well as instructions for making candles out of old crayons, as featured in the story “A Candle for Christmas.”

“Several years ago a story of mine about my dad making ice cream was published in an e-mail newsletter. The title of the story was ‘Dad’s Favorite Recipe,’ and for several weeks after that I received e-mails asking for the recipe. That’s why I decided to include recipes in the book for some of the foods mentioned in my stories,” Ralph explained.

Ralph earned an undergraduate degree in English with a writing emphasis from the University of Wisconsin-Whitewater and also earned a Master of Arts in Teaching from UW-Whitewater. She taught English at a boys’ boarding school for several years and worked as a newspaper reporter for more than eight years. She is a freelance writer for two weekly newspapers in west central Wisconsin and is the editor of the Wisconsin Regional Writer, the quarterly publication of the Wisconsin Regional Writers’ Assoc.

For more information about Christmas In Dairyland (True Stories From a Wisconsin Farm), visit http://ruralroute2.com. The book also can be ordered through any brick-and-mortar bookstore.

Wisconsin author LeAnn R. Ralph remembers it very well.

“When I was growing up on our dairy farm forty years ago, the stores didn’t put up Christmas displays until the day after Thanksgiving. No one was really thinking about Christmas shopping before that,” Ralph said. “In fact, my mother felt so strongly about it that she didn’t even like to hear the word ‘Christmas’ until after we had finished eating Thanksgiving dinner.”

Ralph’s new book, Christmas In Dairyland (True Stories From a Wisconsin Farm), celebrates Christmas during that simpler time.

“Back then, happiness was baking cookies, decorating the Christmas tree, and eating lefse that my mother had made,” Ralph said.

Lefse (pronounced lef’suh) is a flat potato pastry brought to this country by Norwegian immigrants who settled in Wisconsin. Ralph’s mother was the daughter of Norwegian immigrants, and their 120-acre family farm was homesteaded by Ralph’s great-grandfather.

“When I was a kid, people enjoyed simple pleasures. The Sunday school Christmas program was an event at the little country church just down the road from our farm that was attended by nearly everyone in the neighborhood,” Ralph noted.

“At the time, if someone had told me the Christmas season was going to change so drastically that you would eventually get Christmas catalogs in the mail in August and September and that you would find Christmas decorations on sale in August and September, too I wouldn’t have believed it,” she said.

“I also would have never thought that dairy farming would change so much. I always took it for granted that we lived in ‘America’s Dairyland,’ but today, most of the small family dairy farms have disappeared,” Ralph noted.

According to statistics from the United States Census of Agriculture , Wisconsin has lost two-thirds of its dairy farms since 1969. Forty years ago, Wisconsin had 60,000 dairy farms. Today, only about 20,000 dairy farms remain.

Nation-wide statistics from the United States Census of Agriculture show the same trend. In 1969, more than a half a million dairy farms operated in the United States. Today, only about 80,000 dairy farms remain.

“As far as I was concerned, one of the best parts of Christmas was going out with my dad to cut a Christmas tree. We had small stands of pine trees planted around the farm to stop soil erosion. We would walk around until we found a nice tree, and then we would cut it and bring it home,” Ralph recalled.

Ralph’s book, Christmas In Dairyland (True Stories From a Wisconsin Farm) (copyright 2003; ISBN1-59113-366-1 ; trade paperback; 153 pages; $13.95), features 20 stories set on her family’s farm during the Christmas season. Story titles include “The Lefse Connection,” “Milkweed Pods and Poinsettias,” “Wintergreen,” “White Christmas,” “Jeg Er Sa Glad Hver Julekveld,” “The Most Perfect Toboggan,” “A Candle for Christmas,” and “A New Year Unlike Any Other.” The book also includes recipes for lefse, fattigman (a Norwegian cookie, pronounced ‘futty-mun’), julekake, and Christmas cookies, as well as instructions for making candles out of old crayons, as featured in the story “A Candle for Christmas.”

“Several years ago a story of mine about my dad making ice cream was published in an e-mail newsletter. The title of the story was ‘Dad’s Favorite Recipe,’ and for several weeks after that I received e-mails asking for the recipe. That’s why I decided to include recipes in the book for some of the foods mentioned in my stories,” Ralph explained.

Ralph earned an undergraduate degree in English with a writing emphasis from the University of Wisconsin-Whitewater and also earned a Master of Arts in Teaching from UW-Whitewater. She taught English at a boys’ boarding school for several years and worked as a newspaper reporter for more than eight years. She is a freelance writer for two weekly newspapers in west central Wisconsin and is the editor of the Wisconsin Regional Writer, the quarterly publication of the Wisconsin Regional Writers’ Assoc.

For more information about Christmas In Dairyland (True Stories From a Wisconsin Farm), visit http://ruralroute2.com. The book also can be ordered through any brick-and-mortar bookstore.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

LeAnn R. Ralph is the author of the book Christmas In Dairyland (True Stories From a Wisconsin Farm). For more information, visit http://ruralroute2.com

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Emphasizing the Spiritual Side of Christmas with Our Children

August 25th, 2008 by christmaslightsaglow

Emphasizing the Spiritual Side of Christmas with Our Children
By Lisa M. Hendey

In these hectic days prior to Christmas, its easy for us to push aside the precious time we have with our young children in favor of hours spent shopping, wrapping, cooking for guests, and entertaining. We may find ourselves popping in a videotape, permitting one too many happy meals or handing our children toy catalogues to keep them occupied while we repeat Maybe later, sweetie more frequently than we realize.

As parents, we all strive to build family traditions and memories our children will cherish. The trouble starts when we let ourselves become so wrapped up in creating those special moments that we forget what our children will really treasure time with their parents. This holiday season, take a few quiet moments throughout the day to emphasize the sacred side of Christmas, the reason for the season.

The following are a few suggestions for helping you to cherish this quiet family time leading up to Christmas:

Take time to read stories about the real meaning of Christmas: Nearly every home contains a family Bible and Christmas is the perfect time to explore scripture with your child. Simply open your Bible to the beginning verses of each of the four gospels and start reading. Let older children take turns and read a few verses each night in the days leading up to Christmas, or read the entire story on Christmas Eve prior to opening presents.
Christmas Carols: The malls are filled with songs about Santa, reindeer and chestnuts fill you home with traditional, religious Christmas carols. Turn on a favorite Christmas CD (my personal favorite is O Night Divine by Cousins in Christ http://www.roseofsharonmedia.com ), dim the lights, and snuggle in front of a fire (or candle) with your kiddos keep CDs in the car for those hectic hours caught in traffic. And most importantly, sing along!!!
Christmas crafts and activities: For those moments when mom needs some quiet time to wrap, address cards or just unwind, hand your child a Christmas themed coloring picture (with a manger scene rather than a wrapped present) and invite her to color a picture for Grandma, your pastor, or a special teacher or friend. A large selection of spiritually related coloring pictures are available at http://www.christiancoloring.com
Go to Church: For many families, attendance at Christmas services is one of the few times all year that they attend a religious service. This year, try visiting Church as frequently as possible prior to the holidays to help your child truly understand the meaning of Christmas as we embrace and celebrate the birth of our Savior. Many churches have beautiful Nativity displays available for viewing your child will remember his visits with Baby Jesus as a special precursor to the holidays. Please join me and my family in praying for peace in our world as we near Christmas.

The ideas are limitless, but the intention is one we all share to create special, meaningful memories for our children as we help them grow in mind and body. Think back to your own childhood and remember those things that stand out in your mind about Christmas. My own family traditions growing up included our family Christmas play, a simple, costumeless rendition of the Nativity, which was performed for family and friends each Christmas Eve. I cant tell you what I received as a present any of those years, but I can recite every line of that play! Treasure your child this season as you cherish the true meaning of Christmas together.

Lisa M. Hendey is a mother of two sons and webmaster of numerous web sites, including http://www.catholicmom.com and http://www.christiancoloring.com
By Lisa M. Hendey

In these hectic days prior to Christmas, its easy for us to push aside the precious time we have with our young children in favor of hours spent shopping, wrapping, cooking for guests, and entertaining. We may find ourselves popping in a videotape, permitting one too many happy meals or handing our children toy catalogues to keep them occupied while we repeat Maybe later, sweetie more frequently than we realize.

As parents, we all strive to build family traditions and memories our children will cherish. The trouble starts when we let ourselves become so wrapped up in creating those special moments that we forget what our children will really treasure time with their parents. This holiday season, take a few quiet moments throughout the day to emphasize the sacred side of Christmas, the reason for the season.

The following are a few suggestions for helping you to cherish this quiet family time leading up to Christmas:

Take time to read stories about the real meaning of Christmas: Nearly every home contains a family Bible and Christmas is the perfect time to explore scripture with your child. Simply open your Bible to the beginning verses of each of the four gospels and start reading. Let older children take turns and read a few verses each night in the days leading up to Christmas, or read the entire story on Christmas Eve prior to opening presents.
Christmas Carols: The malls are filled with songs about Santa, reindeer and chestnuts fill you home with traditional, religious Christmas carols. Turn on a favorite Christmas CD (my personal favorite is O Night Divine by Cousins in Christ http://www.roseofsharonmedia.com ), dim the lights, and snuggle in front of a fire (or candle) with your kiddos keep CDs in the car for those hectic hours caught in traffic. And most importantly, sing along!!!
Christmas crafts and activities: For those moments when mom needs some quiet time to wrap, address cards or just unwind, hand your child a Christmas themed coloring picture (with a manger scene rather than a wrapped present) and invite her to color a picture for Grandma, your pastor, or a special teacher or friend. A large selection of spiritually related coloring pictures are available at http://www.christiancoloring.com
Go to Church: For many families, attendance at Christmas services is one of the few times all year that they attend a religious service. This year, try visiting Church as frequently as possible prior to the holidays to help your child truly understand the meaning of Christmas as we embrace and celebrate the birth of our Savior. Many churches have beautiful Nativity displays available for viewing your child will remember his visits with Baby Jesus as a special precursor to the holidays. Please join me and my family in praying for peace in our world as we near Christmas.

The ideas are limitless, but the intention is one we all share to create special, meaningful memories for our children as we help them grow in mind and body. Think back to your own childhood and remember those things that stand out in your mind about Christmas. My own family traditions growing up included our family Christmas play, a simple, costumeless rendition of the Nativity, which was performed for family and friends each Christmas Eve. I cant tell you what I received as a present any of those years, but I can recite every line of that play! Treasure your child this season as you cherish the true meaning of Christmas together.

Lisa M. Hendey is a mother of two sons and webmaster of numerous web sites, including http://www.catholicmom.com and http://www.christiancoloring.com

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Lisa M. Hendey is a mother of two sons and webmaster of numerous web sites, including http://www.catholicmom.com and http://www.christiancoloring.com

If it’s christmas lights your looking for, we have one of the largest selections on the web. Click on the following link Christmasdepot.com

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